Thoughts On Pre-marital Sex

[NekoLuca]

I agree with it, times have changed and frankly I don't see it as such a big problem. It used to be mainly a religion thing I think and since the decline (slightly) in the influence of religion it isn't as big a problem. To me. Before a certain age, now THAT'S a problem.

[Arklight]

By my point of view, is it something that you should be judged for if you do it? No. However, is it a decision that should be made lightly? ALSO no. I don't see sex as something solely for pleasure, but I don't consider it to be a spiritual thing. I DO however consider it to be a more romantic aspect of a relationship, which is where I believe the whole waiting for the right person/time stuff comes in.

[Scented Pliers]

The problem is pushing your views on someone else. For example, my parents believe it should only happen with someone you love dearly, my sister has simply viewed it as something for pleasure, and I consider it a more "spiritual thing". Despite this, we all believe that it can be used with any of these methods. Be it just two friends fooling around, a married couple, a young couple deeply in lust, sex can be many things for many different people. And I don't think that it should be limited. If the participants are consenting adults, there shouldn't be a problem.

Hence why even though I myself do not want to have sex with any random person I find attractive, I'm not going to stop anyone else from doing just that. Living your life the way you want to and all that.

Edit: Aaand this is pretty much what I said on the last page. Oh well.

[VodkaHaze]

Marriage to me is just paperwork saying your together, so it's pretty much meaningless to me. If two consenting people (this includes teens btw) want to have sex together, that's fine by me. The only thing I can say is depending on the two who are having sex, please wear a condom.

[Scented Pliers]

Marriage to me is just paperwork saying your together, so it's pretty much meaningless to me. If two consenting people (this includes teens btw) want to have sex together, that's fine by me. The only thing I can say is depending on the two who are having sex, please wear a condom.

+1

Definitely have to agree with this. As long as they can mentally accept the consequences and responsibilities of their actions, and are both consenting, they have have the right to do whatever they wish.

And, yeah, have to agree with your stance on marriage there. I personally can see the appeal, somewhat, but it's something that I'd never do, since it seems pretty, well, worthless to me.

[Soketzu]

I'm going to have to quote Voltaire on this one, "It is one of the superstitions of the human mind to have imagined that virginity could be a virtue."

However, my personal view is that anyone you choose to have sex with you should consider the possibility of them as the father/mother of your child, with all that entails.

[Deekay]

Marriage to me is just paperwork saying your together, so it's pretty much meaningless to me. If two consenting people (this includes teens btw) want to have sex together, that's fine by me. The only thing I can say is depending on the two who are having sex, please wear a condom.

You've pretty much said what was on my mind.

Since I don't really believe in marriage I can't really directly respond to the topic at hand. However, on the subject of sex, I do believe that two consenting people should be able to do it: the only condition being that they are able to fully accept the responsibilities and repercussions that may occur. The last thing I want are horny teenagers fucking like rabbits and start freaking out when something bad happens.