I know this is kind of weird coming from a guy who vehemently supports the gay community whilst doing a bit of bashing on certain groups of people within the so-called "opposing team" but I do live my life by some of the rules. The reason why I am not much into premarital sex is because I choose to be that kind of person as there are a lot of reasons for me to make this decision. The most obvious is safety because of things like STDs being taught to me during my sex-ed classes,I took a stance in not getting myself in the situation where I have a disease in a certain area of my body that will most likely never go away for good. Unexpected pregnancy is also an issue even though I am a guy. I don't want to get someone pregnant unless if 1,I was ready for that responsibility of raising a child and 2,if I was happily married to my future spouse(I am still a single man even after all these years). Having a child changes things and in some cases complicates things. Lifestyles change to support the child as the child needs his/her parents to get them ready for the real world and as such,your life will revolve around your little ones to an extent. You will still have some free time,just not as much. Another reason for my stance against pre-marital sex is more of a romantic's point of view as I am saving myself for the right time and the right girl and want everything to be or more realistically,close to perfect as possible in that aspect of a relationship. I am still looking for that other person and it ain't easy. It is a road that can be harsh to those who are unprepared and as such,anything with a chance to happen will most likely happen. I am not making this thread to force my views on ANYONE. I made this thread as a way to sort of vent out my frustrations in my romantic pursuits and to give maybe a little insight on why I chose this life style. I hope I haven't offended anyone whilst making this thread and sorry if I did.