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ClymAngus
06-15-2004, 11:59 AM
Mmm how do you use your online journal?
Is it a cathartic experience? Does it help you work through problems by expressing them?

It appears to me that you do, and this friend of yours uses his/her journal as a soapbox. Weather it was aimed at you or not they are quite frankly being offensive to whomever they ment.

It's like the old drunk mouthing off at the police, when challenged he says 'I never said nuffin'.
If you have an objection to someones journal entry, they can say that it was never aimed at you, and your being paranoid.
Journals are a broadcast medium, and some people should be reminded of that. By writing ambiguous entries like that they're just spreading hate.

Rightly or wrongly there were better ways of getting their point across. They should watch their mouth.

Sorry your having a bad time at the moment, one other thing. I would paste their entry on your journal then take it apart. Cos at the moment they feel like their in contro, physically take that control away from them, by stealing their comments. Just an idea.

Henageshi
06-15-2004, 02:49 PM
That reply from your friend I have to admit was a LITTLE true. You really DON'T have to have a guy to make you happy. However, the way they wrote it was extremly rude, immature and not to mention just MEAN. It really was never their place to say anything in the first place.

Your reply I thought was very mature and very well written. And trust me I know EXACTLY how you feel. I was single for 3 years and hated EVERY minute of it. but then I just decieded to let loose and live my life to the best and just when Is tarted to I got my boyfriend! ^^ Just hang in there for now.